Astrology can help us understand more about ourselves and the people we love/date/hopelessly crush on—no matter their gender. For more deets on Capricorn compatibility, check out our guide to dating a Capricorn man and our gender-neutral guide to dating a Capricorn.
A Capricorn woman is poised, strong, and about her business. Capricorn is traditionally viewed as a feminine zodiacal energy, and because it is ruled by Saturn, planet of structure, I like to think of Capricorn as a woman who must break the glass ceiling.
Regardless of a woman’s other identities, within social environments, they are often forced to hold back parts of themselves. If a woman is too loud, too assertive, or too intimidating, she runs the risk of being perceived as a problem. For this reason, it can take longer to rise up the ranks when you have a certain womanly flair. Saturn is one of the slower-moving planets, making it easier for Capricorn to understand the plight of needing to overcome marginalization. With grace and resilience, Capricorn women do not step back from what they’ve set their sights on. Even if it takes them years to reach their goals, they are committed for the long haul.
But despite their sometimes serious demeanor, Capricorn women are actually very fun and can be some of the best people to party with. If you’re looking for a dynamic partner who’s capable of helping you navigate social situations with style and grace, then this is the woman for you.
The Capricorn Basics
Birthday: December 23–January 22
Type: Cardinal earth sign
Keywords: Tactical, strategic, patient, planner, practical
Love Anthem: “Cocky AF,” by Megan Thee Stallion
Famous Capricorn women: Michelle Obama, Mary J. Blige, Dolly Parton, Aaliyah, Sade, Meghan Trainor, Hayley Williams, and Deepika Padukone
The best matches for a Capricorn woman
My favorite matches for Capricorn are Scorpio and Cancer placements—don’t shoot thee messenger! It’s true, women born when the Sun was in the sign of Capricorn can struggle with emotional expression. They can be very sensitive beings, and through life experiences, they’ve to hold back their feelings. They understand not everyone deserves to experience the fully intimate aspects of their personhood.
A Cancer placement is willing to create a safe space to comfort and coddle the needs of Capricorn, allowing her to express herself with or without words. Scorpio placements provide a sense of enticing sensuality and are capable of holding secrets that a Capricorn woman can’t share with the rest of the world.
The worst matches for a Capricorn Woman
Okay, let me provide some context prior to getting into the nitty-gritty of who shouldn’t force it with Capricorn. Your Capricorn woman is going to have high standards and expectations, and contrary to the belief of some, having expectations is perfectly fine...within reason. If you commit yourself to a job, then your employer expects you to show up—on time. We do not live in a world where we are completely free of expectations, and your Capricorn lover will surely have them.
For that reason, Sagittarius and Libra might not be the best fit for a Capricorn woman. While Sagittarius is the perfect friend to have fun and let loose with, they tend to be mildly all over the place, which can be perceived by the Capricorn woman as unreliable. Capricorn thrives by creating stability and structure, and while Sagittarius can appreciate the foundation Capricorn lays down—Sagittarius can’t be tamed (as Sag Miley Cyrus famously put it). As for Libra, this fellow cardinal sign is great for Capricorn to network with. They can collaborate on creative visions, but unfortunately, Libra might take a lead in a way in which the Capricorn finds overwhelming. Capricorn values loyalty, and Libra may push their boundaries far further than Capricorn would like.
Sex with a Capricorn Woman
To the surprise of no one, sex with a Capricorn woman is a slowly evolving experience. She and Taurus women compete for the crown of sensuality. The difference is that Taurus women are the types to be naturally sensual and naturally captivating at all times, while a Capricorn woman is unlikely to show that side of herself until she is romantically involved. You will have to earn her trust, seduce her, tease her, and give her a reason to reveal herself to you.
Once intimacy is established, your Capricorn gal will turn into a performer. She won’t hesitate to wear designer attire and luxurious lingerie to entice you. When you’ve built up trust, sex with her can happen almost anywhere, multiple times a day.
A First Date with a Capricorn Woman
Believe it or not, you don’t have to go above and beyond for your Capricorn lover—at least, not on the first date. For the most part, Capricorn women want to know that you have sense, class, and consideration. Even though they can be bougie, they genuinely appreciate a person’s best efforts. So, if all you can afford is a date in the park, that’s fine— just put some work into planning it! Look at the weather, the foot traffic, and scope out the perfect spot prior to your date.
One of the worst things you can do is just wing it with Capricorn, because then she’ll have to start doing the heavy lifting, and the best first date is when she doesn’t have to think too much. Even though it may sound like work to show up on time and be presentable, you’ll find that the initial nervousness will die off once she’s smiling. Give her space to discuss what she’s passionate about: her lifelong goals and dreams. If you’re able to bridge a connection with her, then you’ve basically won. This might sound mildly counterintuitive, but try to leave your date during the height of the connection. When you leave people wanting more, then you’re more likely to see them again. And then after you leave, tell her you want to see her again and get locked into her calendar ASAP.
All about Capricorn
Capricorn is a sign that is depicted by a mermaid goat, which speaks to the duality between their magical thinking and practical practices. Capricorn has the reputation for being the adult of the zodiac, and it’s true that they tend to present in a very mature fashion. Many Capricorns understand the power that comes from appearing intimidating. They like to be taken seriously, so they tend to take themselves seriously.
On the flip side, Capricorn is a very caring and compassionate sign, even if they sometimes struggle to let that side show. Family and friends are very significant components of their lives, and if you ever meet a Capricorn’s loved ones, try to impress them. Because Capricorns are very close to their families and loved ones, they place a lot of importance in how their inner circle is feeling. Caps are the types of people who practice collective mourning, which means if one person is sad, then the entire clique will feel upset. Outside of friends and family, Capricorns are very independent and tend to understand how to take care of themselves from a young age.
Regardless of if they had super attentive parents or parents who were less hands-on, Capricorns tend to become comfortable having to take risks and dive into new adventures. If you ever get a Capricorn to open up to you about their childhood, they probably have plenty of embarrassing stories to share. Of course, they are very careful about who they share their past with. Capricorn understands that not everyone deserves to be let into their lives, so they take an intuitive approach to learning when to open up to others. They value community and innovation, so once they feel as though they can respect your opinions, they will always be willing to hear you out. In their day-to-day life, Capricorns are very curious. They like to listen to podcasts and read books that help them broaden their horizons. As lifelong learners, they enjoy sharing the knowledge that they gain with the larger community. They believe that knowledge is power.
Capricorns tend to keep their acts together even when they feel like they are slipping. They want to be remembered as beautiful people, the types of beings that bring harmony wherever they go. They try not to rock the boat, and work to leave good and lasting impressions.
Unless you are in a Capricorn’s inner circle, it will be extremely difficult to learn much about them. Until you know them well, Capricorn prefers to be cool, calm, and calculated. They do not feel the desire to share much, and find that it’s better to say less. One aspect of Capricorn that often gets disregarded is that they are actually very funny, often when they aren’t trying to be. It’s something they do naturally, although much of their humor falls under “laugh at my pain” vibes. Once a Capricorn trusts you, you’ll see it.
